Trigger Points

Each of us has trigger points
that, when touched, hook us into
old patterns of insecurity, fear,
anger and a need to escape. We
try blaming the person or situation
tripped these traps, but ultimately,
it is we who react…the same issue
could be easily ignored by others.

When you feel discomfort, anger, restlessness,
bored, look for a trigger point. It is not
necessary to under why this triggers you.
The important thing to do is to observe it,
“Oh, there is that feeling of judgment (anger,
jealousy,fear, etc.) again. Interesting how
it crops up from time to time.” Do not condemn
yourself, simply observe and do not act on your
feeling. Let it rise and float away like a soap
bubble. We have the power to choose to act or
not. When we consistently practice observing
rather than reacting to our trigger points,
they lose their power over us.

6 comments

  1. Reblogged this on Living Well and commented:
    knowing yourself
    is the first steps
    to self control
    and that takes away the power
    from other people
    to upset us
    or trigger our reactions

    take back your power
    find your centre
    harmony
    and balance to follow

    true story

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